Stages of commitment dating uncertainty
” Tell Him Exactly How You Feel Inside You don’t have to ask about his feelings because that might feel invasive to him, but you can and should tell him about yours.If you are worried about his level of commitment to your relationship or just don’t like the fact that he’s late to pick you up for a date, etc., the best thing you can do is be 100% upfront: Sign up for my Goddess Advice Newsletter and receive weekly emails from me!It's my exclusive and free advice-- tools, exercises and insight that will change the way you see dating, and the way men see you!Build Confidence By Holding Off On Exclusivity I know you like him and you feel like you may be ready to give him a life-long commitment, but are you really sure about that?
Are you trying really hard not to ruffle his “commitment feathers” by asking him how he feels about you?
Are you, instead, trying your best to show him what a great catch you are by being the sweet, fun-time, easy-breezy gal on the outside (even if you are crumbling with worry and insecurity on this inside)?
Putting the man in front of your feelings and needs may seem like the right thing to do at the beginning of a relationship (hey, don’t we all have irrational fears that aren’t attractive? Just because you don’t want to feel insecure, needy, uncomfortable and scared, doesn’t mean that you aren’t feeling that way.
And chances are—if you feel these feelings in your budding relationship, he can sense them.
Trying to play the “cool card” when you are anything but, isn’t going to bring him closer.